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SPIRITUALITY

ADDRESS GIVEN BY
PRIOR WILLIAM OSB
on 8 OCTOBER 2007
AT THE RECEPTION OF
SISTER ELIZABETH PIO
AS A NOVICE INTO
THE SOCIETY OF THE SISTERS OF BETHANY

May I speak to you in the name of the Father, Son and of the Holy Spirit. Amen.
Well, may I first say what a tremendous privilege to be asked to preach a very short homily at this Clothing; thank you for inviting me.

Two weeks ago the Sisters here said their goodbyes to Sister Margaret Faith. It was a celebration of a life served faithfully to the will of God, and of dedication to the life of this Community. Sister’s second name in Community was ‘Faith’ and she was true to her name; the way she placed her trust in her Saviour, and in her belief that God had called her to serve Him in the religious life. As I pondered on Sister’s name I recalled that Isaiah is the ‘prophet of faith’, and his pronouncements reminded the people of his time of the faithfulness of God even in the time of adversity, even though they doubted His direction sometimes and wandered off down other pathways. ‘For thus saith the Lord God, the Holy One of Israel, ‘in returning and rest shall ye be saved; in quietness and in confidence shall be your strength, and therefore will the Lord wait, that He may be gracious unto you; and therefore will He be exalted, that He may have mercy upon you: for the Lord is a God of judgement, blessed are all they that wait for Him. And thine ears shall hear a word behind thee, saying, ‘This is the way, walk ye in it.’ When ye turn to the right hand and when ye turn to the left.’

You see, God sees the broader picture but He gives us the freedom to view and discover the contents of that picture for ourselves. God is not a control freak. He calls us as we are, where we are, and enables us to become who we are. And for each and every one of us, who we are will be a unique and, at times, disconcerting revelation. And today is one of those unique and disconcerting revelations. The receiving of the habit of a Religious requires from the Postulant acceptance and trust that the Community has sought out the Will of God, and is manifesting that Will by clothing you as a Novice today. You have consented to this process of deliberation by accepting the habit. But don’t be alarmed - you are on a journey and this is just one of the many destinations you will arrive at on this journey. For now, today, just enjoy this particular destination. Stop, stand back and enjoy the view! It is incredibly beautiful!

Listen to the words of Revelation Chapter 7, verses nine to twelve, this is from the Jerusalem Bible translation – ‘After that I saw a huge number, impossible to count, of people from every nation, race, tribe and language; they were standing in front of the throne and in front of the Lamb, dressed in white robes and holding palms in their hands. They shouted in a loud voice, ‘Victory to our God who sits on the throne and to the Lamb!’ And all the angels who were standing in a circle round the throne, surrounding the elders and the for animals, prostrated themselves before the throne, and touched the ground with their foreheads, worshipping God with these words, ‘Amen! Praise and glory and wisdom, thanksgiving and honour and power and strength to our God for ever and ever! Amen!’ And to affirm those words of Revelation we have the wonderful words of today’s Gospel. ‘Jesus said, ‘If anyone loves me he will keep my word and my Father will love him, and we shall come to him and make our home in him. Those who do not love me do not keep my words and my word is not my own, it is the word of the one who sent me. I have said these things to you while still with you but the Advocate, the Holy Spirit, the Father will send in my name will teach you everything and remind you of all I have said to you.’ I began this short homily with reference to Sister Margaret Faith, and I commend her faith, together with the faith of the Sisters present here with me now, both living and departed, they all stand together. Revelation - ‘a huge number, impossible to count, worshipping God. Amen! Praise and glory and wisdom, thanksgiving and honour and power and strength to our God for ever and ever! Amen!’

The Holy Spirit is a wonderful Person. As I listened with my headphones on, on Sunday morning to the service on the radio, one of my favourite hymns was sung. We don’t sing it, sadly, because it’s in the Methodist hymn book. And whenever I worship with my Methodist friends I always hope they’re going to sing this hymn. I think you’ll know it but I’m going to bore you and read the verses to you because the words mean so much to me – it’s from ‘Lamentations’ actually. ‘Great is thy faithfulness, O God my Father, there is no shadow of turning with thee, thou changest not, thy compassions may fail not, as thou hast been, thou forever wilt be. Summer and winter, and springtime and harvest, sun, moon and stars in their courses above, join with all nature in manifold witness, to thy great faithfulness, mercy and love. Pardon for sin and a peace that endureth, thine own dear presence to cheer and to guide, strength for today and bright hope for tomorrow, blessings all mine with ten thousand besides. Great is thy faithfulness, great is thy faithfulness, morning by morning new mercies I see, all I have needed thy hand hath provided, great is thy faithfulness, Lord unto me.’

When I entered community a few years ago, when I arrived at Alton there was a letter from the Sisters at Tymawr. And there was just this card inside this envelope, I’ve still got it. And the words have meant a great deal to me because they talk about community. And I’ll just finish with those words if I may - ‘Many lovers came together to love One only, their Beloved, who made them to abide in love. And each one had the Beloved for his precious possession.’ Amen.

Group photograph of Sisters, Prior William and Abbot Giles in Front of Chapel Sister Joanna Elizabeth [Sacristan], Sister Elizabeth Pio N, Sister Rita-Elizabeth [Novice Guardian]

 

Address given by Abbot Giles OSB
on the occasion of the 140th Anniversary
of the Foundation of the Sisters of Bethany
on 5 October 2006
photograph of Abbot Giles gazing upward, underneath the Fig Tree

Readings: Old Testament: Hosea 2:19,20 New Testament: Philippians 3:7-14

Gospel: Luke10:38-42
Now as they went on their way He entered into a village and a woman named Martha received Him into her house and she had a sister called Mary who sat at the Lord’s feet and listened to His teaching. But Martha was distracted with much serving and she went to him and said, “Lord, do you not care that my sister has left me to serve alone. Tell her then to help me”. The Lord answered her, “Martha, Martha, you are anxious and troubled about many things; one thing is needful, Mary has chosen the good portion. It shall not be taken away from her”.

In the name of the Father, and of the Son, and of the Holy Spirit. Amen.

Yesterday, the first letter I opened was from our Brethren in Three Rivers, Michigan, the Abbey of St Gregory and the Prior of that House was writing to me about a Vocations Month and complaining bitterly about how few young men offer themselves - only 7! and of that 7, two of them fell out of the list very quickly, one found that he had to go and work to raise money to get himself through the next part of his course at University; the other one had a similar sort of excuse. By the time it came for Vocations Month to start there was one left and I read this long, long essay on why Monastic Houses in the Western world are failing. And, I got to the end of it and thought to myself, there is no sign of hope at all; and of course, it’s true, because Society has changed. It has changed radically since even I entered Community 40 years ago. And we are a Society where the individual counts, the Community doesn’t any longer. This is how Society is.

What is the place today for you and I as Monks and Nuns. Your Community has a history of 140 years, mine is about 120. We came into Community and we were taught were we not, many of us anyway, you push your will aside, push your wishes aside and make sacrifice to the whole Community of yourself. And it is very difficult for us to come to terms with things as they are today, we find them difficult. The consequence of those difficulties will be that we get smaller.
Now that is not to say we haven’t got something to give to the Christian Church and to the world, something deeply important.

So what has a Community, Christian Community, of consecrated celibates got to say to the world today? Our main vocation isn’t going out nursing the sick, it isn’t necessarily going out preaching the gospel any longer, it isn’t getting involved in ‘Doing’ any longer. I remember coming to this Community as a Novice when it was in Bournemouth and having a Novices’ Conference and the ‘in’ thing in those days was ‘being’. We were so busy ‘being’ most of us didn’t actually know what they were talking about. So, after 40 years in Community one begins to see that there is something to be said, to be simply a silent sign to the Church, because the Church needs that sign more than anybody else, because we are constantly backing off telling people the gospel and what that implies and the responsibilities that it has and as a consequence people are turning away.

In Europe, the Holy Father, the last Holy Father not the present one, decided that Benedictines should enter into Inter-Faith Inter-Monastic Dialogue called DIM because it had come back to the Vatican that a lot of young people particularly in places like Germany and France were turning to Buddhism. He wanted to know, they wanted to know, Why? So he said that the Benedictine confederated families should get together and enter into Dialogue with men and women of other faiths, monastic men and women of other faiths, and it has been interesting but it didn’t take us very long to realise what had attracted each other. The thing that was attracting them was that the Lama, the leaders of the Hindu religion, the Jews, Muslims, knew what they believed and weren’t afraid to say it and live it. Then when I found myself among Christian monks and nuns who were present there was no real dialogue going on because we were not actually entering into it ourselves and one felt sometimes that it was because we were unsure of our ground. The young people see in the Lama, the Hindu leaders, the Muslim leaders, men and women who speak with authority and sadly all too often the Church hasn’t those sort of men and women who will speak with authority; speak as prophetic voice to the people of God and the world.

Now I want to suggest that that is what you are doing as Nuns; you are speaking to the world with the authority of your prayer-life behind you and that is an essential; your life is prophetic, it is saying in effect “don’t look at me, look at God” this is how things are, don’t lose heart because you are getting older, so am I. Remember that your presence is an essential part of the beating heart of the Church, without you something is not there, something that is valid and of great value. Your Sisters in the past, like you, have given their whole heart to the Church and to Christ, so have you, the fact that you are not able to do just as they did, so what! The very fact that you live together and stay together is an essential sign to the Church because in a world where there is no stability the Church needs that prophetic sign of stability and although I know you don’t take my vows, or the same vows that we Benedictines take, Stability is there and it is an essential sign of the Church in the world.

Today should be joyful not sad, that Monk out in Three Rivers Michigan should be joyful not sad because as long as there is only 7 of them they are a sign to a Church, the American Church, which is in a sad mess. A sign of stability, of men and women who are prepared to cling to the cross because that is all we have.

It is an essential thing for us all that we are here today to be followers of Jesus, to cling on to Him even when things don’t seem to be going our way. It is at the end of the road He knows what is best for us and the essential thing is that we hear that voice saying “Well done, good and faithful servant, enter into the Kingdom of God”. Put together your faithfulness, your stability, your love for one another, and you have a wonderful, almost an icon, of living the Gospels.
As we allow ourselves to be aware of God’s movement in our midst, we are living signs of God’s presence in the Church and the World.

In the name of the Father, and of the Son, and of the Holy Spirit. Amen.

 

Associates Festival Sermon

Canon Nick Ash, head and shoulders

Canon Nick Ash

18 September 2004

Mass of the Feast of Bethany

 

It is a great pleasure to be a part of your Associates’ Day today, particularly as my Grandmother was brought up by the Sisters of Bethany in Bournemouth towards the end of the first world war and she was an Associate all the rest of her life until she died a couple of years ago. I can remember as children she used to tell us stories about life in the convent and we were very glad that we didn’t have that kind of life! She was very appreciative of what the Sisters did for her, not only in her childhood but throughout her life.

I am the Precentor at Portsmouth Cathedral and one of the things that I have to do is to provide cover for all of the services at the Cathedral. In order to do that I send out “availability sheets” for each month. They have 30 or 31 boxes on them and within each box there are the number of services there are for that particular day. Then I get them all back again, eventually after much chivvying. I reckon I could do a personality analysis on the returns. Some fill in the forms very precisely, some cross out the ones they can’t do, some tick the ones they can do, some do both. Some put 2 ticks in the box and you have to guess which service they mean and any number forget to put their names at the top of the sheet. But that is alright because having been there nearly a year I am getting used to everyone’s style and I know who they are and so it doesn’t really matter whether they put their names down or not. They are all individuals, of course, and their returns reflect the fact that they are individuals and they do things differently.

We are all different - Praise God – He created us that way, and there could be no other way of doing it. We have a beautiful illustration of that in the household of Mary and Martha. That home graphically shows us how people of different personalities interact. I want to think about the gospel passage where Martha invites Jesus to lunch and all that was going on in that household and all the dynamics of that household when Jesus came to share with Mary and Martha. There was Martha busy in the kitchen while Mary sat and talked, and there was a certain frisson that arose between them. Martha got very annoyed with Mary because she was apparently just sitting around doing nothing and she appealed to Jesus to get Mary to help her. Two different people having a very different outlook on life. There was Martha, she had a job to do and she needed to get it done. She wanted everything to be just right for this very special guest and she dashed about determined to make things perfect. Mary was at the other end of the scale, apparently very laid back; some might say that she was lazy as she sat about listening to what Jesus was saying. But, of course, she wasn’t being lazy she was undertaking a ministry equally as important as Martha’s – listening was equally important as the hospitality of the meal. In actual fact they made a perfect team, so when Martha challenged Jesus to get him to sort Mary out; if you look in the pages of Luke’s gospel he actually condemns neither. So, neither is wrong, and neither is right either.

What does the home of Mary and Martha have to teach us the Associates and the Sisters of Bethany? Let’s look at what was going on before that meal happened. Jesus had been busy – he had been teaching and encouraging his disciples to work with him and he had sent out the seventy to go in pairs among all the towns and villages to prepare the way and afterwards there was a de-briefing session. He had been fielding questions from clever people, like “who is my neighbour?” - and putting together stories like the Good Samaritan to help them understand. So by the time of our episode he’s probably pretty tired and would just like to sit down and relax. What better way to relax than being invited out to a meal? Especially perhaps when you are an honoured guest. But sometimes when you are an honoured guest it makes things more difficult than if you are just a friend from round the corner. Things can get a bit fraught when you have people for lunch especially when you want things to be just right. There are some lovely human reactions in that story. When Martha appeals to Jesus to get Mary to help, he doesn’t say that she shouldn’t be rushing around because, if the truth were known, he is probably quite hungry as well. Rather he tells her that she is distracted by many things. It is not the actual task that is keeping her from Jesus, it is the way she is approaching it. Mary, on the other hand is more relaxed, some might say too relaxed, and so is able to enjoy Jesus’ company. The first thing we learn as individuals is not to analyse whether our character is like Mary or Martha (or the male equivalent) but about whether the way in which we go about our lives is distracting us from our relationship with God. Jesus is not saying we should just sit about and it will all be alright, because even the way we sit about can distract us. If Mary had been gazing out of the window instead of listening attentively to Jesus he wouldn’t have had very good company at all. In reality we need to be doing things like Martha and making space to reflect and listen like Mary. Both of those things need to be done in such a way so as not to distract us from our relationship with God. So what was it that distracted Martha so much? Was it just that she had too much to do? Or was it that she was trying too hard to make it special? Or was she even trying to impress? So the first thing we might learn is not to get distracted from the task in hand, whether it is a doing task, or a being task, and certainly not to get distracted by our own self-centredness.

This brings us on to the tricky question of the motives for our action or inaction. If Mary’s motive for sitting down with Jesus was just to take the weight off her feet and have a quiet snooze and she couldn’t really be bothered to help Martha then Martha was right to get annoyed. On the other hand Martha was doing her very best to show kindness to her friend Jesus, but Jesus didn’t need kindness in that way at that time. He was on his way to Jerusalem and his mind was set on what was likely to happen there, even the likelihood of his death. So he didn’t need people fussing about him at the time. In other words, Martha was being very kind, but it was the wrong kind of kindness. It was kindness on her terms rather than the kindness that Jesus needed. which was just a simple meal and space to think. That is what Mary understood, though Martha was too busy trying to be kind, to be kind. So here is the second thing we might learn. Of course we want to show kindness to people, but if we are honest we often want to be kind to them in our own way. And worse, should it be that our way of kindness is not really what is needed we sometimes take offence because we are not appreciated. And that is where the lesson of the woman at Shunem, with Elisha can be taken into account. She provided hospitality as a friend; she built a room on the roof for Elisha to use when he needed it. Hospitality with no strings attached. If we want to show real kindness to people we have first to try and see into their hearts, put their needs first, listen to them rather than use our own ideas for that which we might conveniently do. The third thing that we might learn from the household of Martha and Mary is that there are very different types of people, different talents and different ways of doing things. That in fact is the strength of a community, whether it is a gathered community in a religious house or the community of prayer of associates scattered across the country. Different ways of viewing a situation can be positive or it can lead to tensions. Like Martha we may be distracted by our differences and get cross. Or we can rejoice in our diversity, focused on the call that Christ has for each of us as we work together in the community, whether it is local or scattered.

God values each of us equally whether we are Mary’s or Martha’s (or the male equivalents). At the house of Bethany Jesus loved Martha and Martha loved Jesus and wanted to do the very best for him, but Martha was distracted. When she tried it all went horribly wrong, Jesus got annoyed and Martha got cross with Mary. Her way of being kind was really unkind to the man who wanted no fuss and who was desperate for a bit of peace and quiet.

Jesus loved Mary and Mary loved Jesus, and Mary understood. Amen.

 

MEDITATION ON MARTHA, MARY AND LAZARUS

Martha
Luke 10:38-42

Jesus and his disciples came to a village where a woman named Martha opened her home to him. She had a sister called Mary, who sat at the Lord’s feet listening to what he said. But Martha was distracted by all the preparations that had to be made. She came to him and asked, “Lord, don’t you care that my sister has left me to do the work by myself? Tell her to help me!”
“Martha, Martha,” the Lord answered, “you are worried and upset about many things, but only one thing is needed. Mary has chosen what is better, and it will not be taken away from her.”

Christ in the house of Martha and Mary by Vermeer

Christ in the House of Martha and Mary by Vermeer

In Vermeer’s painting our eyes are attracted to Martha, she is centre stage and she is claiming our attention – Our Lord is pushed to one side and Mary is lost in a world and space of her own – lost even to our attention.

How often the urgency of our own needs and the pressures of our busy life cause us to fall into the trap of this scene.

We want God to be our priority, we want to lose ourselves in God, like Mary, but Martha spoils our fine intentions. She seems to be unaware that she is interrupting a precious moment. Her concerns are not ignored by Jesus – but she is in danger of being the loser. Deep within each of us there is a longing for Jesus to take notice of us and meet our needs.
The one thing necessary is that which brings us nearer to eternal life at each moment. At this particular moment it was more important to listen to Jesus than to worry about making a good impression on Him.
Martha and Mary are not opposed. It is not good works versus prayer, worship against the social gospel, it is not either/or but the balance of both emphases.
Jesus is not taking Martha to task for getting on with things that have to be done, nor is he praising Mary for giving him her total attention, – rather He is curbing Martha’s over-busyness and critical spirit. There is not quite as much to do in the immediate as she is perhaps trying to make out. Who Jesus is and what he is about has to come first at that precise moment.

 

Heinrich Fullmaurer: Im Haus von Maria und Martha

Heinrich Fullmaurer: Im Haus von Maria und Martha

Here is a very homely domestic scene, painted in warm colours. Mary is sitting, or kneeling, in the foreground looking up at Jesus who is seated on a throne symbolic of His authority – sitting is a teaching posture, and he is pointing His finger in authority.

Lazarus is central in the picture – he is preparing the simple table in a calm manner – probably listening to Jesus as he gets on with his task.
Martha left Jesus to work in the kitchen, and now she appears, dishevelled and worn-out in the doorway. Her arrival appears like a breathless intrusion on a calm scene. She is striking a discordant note, “I can’t cope,” she seems to be saying, wagging her finger and brandishing her spoon and cooking pot, demanding attention.
Through the window we can see a great crowd of people coming towards the house from the city. They are coming because they know that Jesus is at Bethany and they want to be where Jesus is.
Lazarus is wearing black – signifying his death and resurrection – he appears undistracted by Martha’s outburst – he appears focussed on his task and recollected in the presence of Jesus.
Mary is fully occupied in adoring attention to Jesus.
Both Lazarus and Mary give us clues how to stay close to Jesus – and that is the lesson that Martha too will learn.

Blessed are the poor in spirit (those who know their need of God) theirs is the Kingdom of God.
Thomas Traherne said, “One may not be so much given over to action as to forget divine speculation.”
The key to the integration of these 2 emphases is Christ himself.
Traherne also said, “Our Saviour Jesus lived a life in public; sociable, humane, charitable, free and common. And yet for opportunity of special devotion, retired to prayer and contemplation.”
We take Jesus therefore as our model – withdrawal is sometimes absolutely necessary for our spiritual well-being and sanity – but it must never be a selfish end in itself,
Traherne again, “solitude is a good school in which to learn piety and virtue, and the world is the best theatre in which to practise it.”
This state of balance is not something we achieve merely by our own efforts – we must ask God to reveal Himself to us that we might find our balance in Him – service and adoration indissolubly one for ever.
Martha must have achieved this balance – it was she who said, “I believe that you are the Christ, the Son of God, He who is coming into the world.” John 11:27. back


Mary
John 12:1-11

Six days before the Passover, Jesus arrived at Bethany, where Lazarus lived, whom Jesus had raised from the dead. Here a dinner was given in Jesus’ honour. Martha served, while Lazarus was among those reclining at the table with him. Then Mary took about a pint of pure nard, and expensive perfume; she poured it on Jesus’ feet and wiped his feet with her hair. And the house was filled with the fragrance of the perfume.
But one of his disciples, Judas Iscariot, who was later to betray him, objected, “Why wasn’t this perfume sold and the money given to the poor? It was worth a year’s wages.” He did not say this because he cared about the poor but because he was a thief; as keeper of the money bag, he used to help himself to what was put into it.
“Leave her alone,” Jesus replied, “It was intended that she should save this perfume for the day of my burial. You will always have the poor among you, but you will not always have me.”
Meanwhile a large crowd of Jews found out that Jesus was there and came, not only because of him but also to see Lazarus, whom he had raised from the dead. So the chief priests made plans to kill Lazarus as well, for on account of him many of the Jews were going over to Jesus and putting their faith in him.

The anointing of Jesus’ feet follows the raising of Lazarus from the dead. Mary would have anointed the body of Lazarus after he had died, in preparation for his burial.
Was Mary’s gesture an act of gratitude for the restoration of her brother?
Was it an extravagant act of love and gratitude?
Martha had declared her belief that Jesus was Messiah Son of God – was Mary demonstrating that she shared that belief?
The washing of feet was a sign of service and humility - prefiguring the washing of feet at the Last Supper?
Mary would have been saving the ointment for future burials and so, to affirm her belief in the resurrection, did she use it extravagantly because it wouldn’t be needed again?
Jesus tells Judas, “Let her alone, let her keep it for the day of my burial,”(John 12:7) – was he preparing his friends for his death?
At the resurrection the Marys to whom Jesus appeared are recorded as clasping him by the feet. (Matthew 28:9)
Mary may have known that the Chief Priests and Pharisees had begun plotting Jesus’ death following the raising of her brother, Lazarus from the dead (John 12:9-11) – her gesture was to express that for which she had no words.
Did Mary fully realise the significance of what she was doing- was it a calculated gesture?
Was Mary one who acted impulsively, following the promptings of her heart?
Following Jesus’ speaking of his impending death was she letting Him know that she understood what was to come?
Was this act, which Mary performed, to balance Martha’s service in the kitchen?
What are the lessons we can learn from Mary?

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Lazarus
John 11:1-45

Now a man named Lazarus was sick. He was from Bethany, the village of Mary and her sister Martha. This Mary, whose brother Lazarus now lay sick was the same one who poured perfume on the Lord and wiped his feet with her hair. So the sisters sent word to Jesus, “Lord, the one you love is sick.”
When he heard this, Jesus said, “This sickness will not end in death. No, it is for God’s glory so that God’s Son may be glorified through it.” Jesus loved Martha and her sister and Lazarus. Yet when he heard that Lazarus was sick, he stayed where he was two more days.
Then he said to his disciples, “Let us go back to Judea.”
“But Rabbi,” they said, “a short while ago the Jews tried to stone you, and yet you are going back there?”
Jesus answered, “Are there not twelve hours of daylight? A man who walks by day will not stumble, for he sees by this world’s light. It is when he walks by night that he stumbles, for he has no light.”
After he had said this, he went on to tell them, “Our friend Lazarus has fallen asleep; but I am going there to wake him up.”
His disciples replied, “Lord, if he sleeps, he will get better.” Jesus had been speaking of his death, but his disciples thought he meant natural sleep. So then he told them plainly, “Lazarus is dead, and for your sake I am glad I was not there, so that you may believe. But let us go to him.”
Then Thomas (called Didymus) said to the rest of the disciples, “Let us also go, that we may die with him.”
On his arrival, Jesus found that Lazarus had already been in the tomb for four days. Bethany was less than two miles from Jerusalem, and many Jews had come to Martha and Mary to comfort them in the loss of their brother. When Martha heard that Jesus was coming, she went out to meet him. But Mary stayed at home.
“Lord,” Martha said to Jesus, “if you had been here, my brother would not have died. But I know that even now God will give you whatever you ask.”
Jesus said to her, “Your brother will rise again.”
Martha answered, “I know he will rise again in the resurrection at the last day.”
Jesus said to her, “I am the resurrection and the life. He who believes in me will live, even though he dies; and whoever lives and believes in me will never die. Do you believe this?”
“Yes, Lord,” she told him, “I believe that you are the Christ, the Son of God, who was to come into the world.”
And after she had said this, she went back and called her sister Mary aside, “The Teacher is here,” she said, “and is asking for you.” When Mary heard this, she got up quickly and went to him. Now Jesus had not yet entered the village, but was still at the place where Martha had met him. When the Jews who had been with Mary in the house, comforting her, noticed how quickly she got up and went out, they followed her supposing she was going to the tomb to mourn there.
When Mary reached the place where Jesus was and saw him, she fell at his feet and said, “Lord, if you had been here, my brother would not have died.”
When Jesus saw her weeping, and the Jews who had come along with her also weeping, he was deeply moved in spirit and troubled. “Where have you laid him?” he asked.
“Come and see, Lord,” they replied.
Jesus wept.
Then the Jews said, “See how he loved him!”
But some of them said, “Could not he who opened the eyes of the blind man have kept this man from dying?”
Jesus, once more deeply moved, came to the tomb. It was a cave with a stone laid across the entrance. “Take away the stone,” he said.
“But, Lord,” said Martha, the sister of the dead man, “by this time there is a bad odour, for h has been there four days.”
Then Jesus said, “Did I not tell you that if you believed, you would see the glory of God?”
So they took away the stone. Then Jesus looked up and said, “Father, I thank you that you have heard me, but I said this for the benefit of the people standing here, that they may believe that you sent me.”
When he had said this, Jesus called in a loud voice, “Lazarus, come out!” The dead man came out, his hands and feet wrapped with strips of linen, and a cloth around his face.
Jesus said to them, “Take off the grave clothes and let him go.”
Therefore many of the Jews who had come to visit Mary, and had seen what Jesus did, put their faith in him.

 

Icon: Raising of Lazarus

Icon: Raising of Lazurus

We expected Jesus to come, we wanted him to come, we sent and asked him to come – we pinned our hopes on him.
We couldn’t understand his not coming when our need was so desperate.
We couldn’t believe that he really loved us when he didn’t come.

And so I died.

Jesus wept when he came – why?
He shared the sorrow of my sisters Mary and Martha,
He was sorry that his delay had disappointed them,
He was sorry that I had died in pain.

Perhaps he could see me in heaven – in the bosom of His Father,
He knew what it was like in heaven,
He shared the experience of Paradise,
And Jesus wept at the memory of it all,
with joy for my intimacy with His Father,
He wept with longing for His Father.

Jesus called out, “Lazarus come forth,” –
He has authority in heaven and on earth.
And so I was snatched away from that heavenly experience.
Did Jesus recall his own experience in being torn from the heart of God at his incarnation?

I was born to newness of life and nothing will ever be the same again.


How did Lazarus’ experience of heaven give him courage and hope for the future?
To what things of his former life on earth was he now dead?
How did Lazarus’ resurrection glorify God? (John 11:4)

Martha and Mary had to let Lazarus go in order to receive him back – transformed, resurrected, healed, empowered.
In the face of Lazarus’ death Martha was able to say to Jesus – “I believe you are the resurrection and the life.”
In what way did the rest of their lives together reflect this newness of resurrection life and give glory to God?

 

Icon from the Benedictine Priory of Bethany, Loppem, Belgium.
Ikoon van de Vrieden van Jeses: Martha, Maria en Lazarus;
by Claudio PASTRO, Brazil.

Icon from the Benedictine Priory in Belgium

 

 

Lazarus and Mary’s eyes are turned upward – gazing God-wards.
Jesus is looking at me, blessing me and pointing towards God.
Martha is looking towards Jesus.

In the same way as Jesus was with Martha, Mary and Lazarus, He is with us by our fellowship with each other in Community – by our lives collaborating by obedience and love into the action of the Holy Trinity in our world.
The Lord is with us by our day by day journeying around the circle of love which is centred on His presence with us and by the sign of Blessing at the heart of this icon. back

COLLECT

Almighty God, whose Son Jesus Christ when living among us, honoured with his presence the house at Bethany. Give us grace, like Lazarus to walk in newness of life, like Martha to feed Christ in serving our brothers and sisters, and like Mary, attentive to your Word, to be fed by him who is the bread of life, our Saviour: who is alive and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, One God, now and for ever. Amen.

Let us learn from Martha, Mary and Lazarus how we may be friends with Jesus.

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